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tammyanddave
08-08-2007, 05:33 AM
i havent been to many weddings so i'm not sure what is proper here. are you supposed to give a shower gift AND a gift at the wedding or just one or the other?
young037
08-08-2007, 06:41 AM
Nope, if you're invited to both, you're supposed to give at both. Usually, people shop from your registry for the shower, and then give $$ for the wedding!!
ISIDEJOSH
08-08-2007, 10:45 AM
I agree with young~!
bigbooby
08-08-2007, 11:25 AM
Nope, if you're invited to both, you're supposed to give at both. Usually, people shop from your registry for the shower, and then give $$ for the wedding!!

Yep!!!! I agree with you Liz:D
maeberha
08-08-2007, 11:54 AM
only if you are invitied to the shower you have to give them a shower gift. If you are just invited just to the wedding, then just give them a wedding gift
young037
08-08-2007, 05:09 PM
LOL... it's good to see people agree with me, or else I would've been making a BAD decision. Let's pray for LOTS of money gifts at the wedding!!!
young037
08-10-2007, 07:24 AM
Hope the advice helps, but just remember that people always do their own thing!
MelissaandJames
08-10-2007, 07:36 AM
I'm hoping that we get gifts at the shower, and $$$ at the wedding. But any gift we get will be fine with us!

But usually I do a gift for shower, if I'm invited. And only to one shower if they have multiples not a gift for each shower. And then money or a gift card if they have a lot of stuff left on their registry. But that's just me, and I think it's easier to have to carry envelopes from the wedding.