For the most part all the gifts we recieved were off our registry's. There were a few that were not but we are not about to complain (especially the ones from Tiffany's). LOL
I have to say though and I may sound selfish, but of all the people that are "sending gifts" I only got one and my shower was weeks ago. Meanies. Don't say you are sending one if you are not. I don't care if you don't, but it's not fair to me expecting something.