Thanks for all of the replies guys! I'm definitely going to check out all of those websites
We're going to go to Tahoe (about a 3.5 hour drive from where we live) for our mini/pre honeymoon the morning after we get married. I think it'll be perfect because we'll have snow and the whole thing.
For Europe, we have no idea how to settle on a certain number of places- we want to see everything and we don't know when we'll get a chance like this again. I don't want to be completely "backpacking" because I want it to feel like a honeymoon too, ya know?
I feel like I'm getting a little overwhelmed with so much planning but it's all worth it in the end